🔊As an innkeeper, one should be very accommodating and strive to make sure all guests are comfortable.
🔊My teacher is very accommodating and is going to send me work to do while I’m in the hospital.
And perhaps it is true, that they are selfish, but the real problem is not being addressed because it is buried deep in your soul.
Guitarist Rob Scallon, thought it'd be a good idea to link up a bunch of pedals and aim for a record. I draw a line quickly and if you cross it, well that’s it for our relationship. As an adult, I have grown to believe that things are not random, that people are in my life for a reason.When I was younger, I was just too nice and accommodating and that allowed people around me really take advantage of me. My feelings were always sacrificed for another’s happiness or needs. How am I going to find out what the reason is if I don’t allow the relationship to develop? Where do you draw the line between accommodating others and being abused.I think it would have been better off if I had ended it much earlier and moved on. My natural inclination was to let the friendship fade away, but after careful consideration, i confronted her and we sorted it out. If it is not truthful and not helpful, don’t say it. Often we say this or that is what upsets us, but actually it is something far deeper.For example, you are arguing with your spouse about them being selfish supporting this with certain events that have happened and their behaviour.