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Rejection, in any form, is so hard to deal with, and it can really impact how we view ourselves.Don’t let a bunch of people on an app decide your worth.I spent most of my childhood having the same best friends, so when we parted ways for college, I had to basically start over.
People get uncomfortable and bored with dating apps all the time, so why is it so weird that I’m feeling the same way toward a friend app? I’ve tried practically every app out there, been on probably thirty or so dates (good and bad), and after a year of dating someone I met online, I’d say I’ve found a little success!However, in the category of making friends, I don’t get out there as much.After looking at what felt like hundreds of photos of girls in their cap and gown from graduation, on some vacation with their boyfriends, or sipping a mimosa (Bumble BFF girls LOVE brunch! What about me makes all these girls not want to be my friend? Do I not have enough photos that make me look cute and fun?! I started beating myself up over not meeting anyone that I started feeling like a friendless loser who was destined to sit at home and watch every new Netflix movie alone.I got into a comparison mindset, thinking that I needed to have a profile more like her or her, and then, I’d make friends.
I learned that my worth isn’t derived from people “matching” with me on an app, and I have an entire life full of friendships ahead of me. (This was a bold move that I was very afraid to do, but now we’re going to another class together!